How To Pick the Best Wedding Dress

When little girls spend their mathematics classes daydreaming of weddings ( instead winning the World Series — not to say you will not do both ), what do they dream of first? The perfect marriage dress, of course: a gown in ideal embellishments, and sweeping train, the ideal elaborations, and the ideal shoes.

Many brides are lucky. They may search low and low, braving chilly dept stores and pushy bridal shops, but eventually they come face-to-face with The One. They know this is The One because they start crying, or their mum or friends all start crying right away. All of the planning …. the tone, the right sort of venues …. it all springs to life.

Other brides aren’t as lucky. They’ve searched just as hard, working their way thru shops across three or 4 states, but they haven’t found The One. Instead, they’ve found 3 or four Contenders, all of which are serviceable and nice, but not earth-shattering enough to tell them that now is definitely time to stop the searching and get on with the planning. These brides have it harder.

Even if you are the first kind of bride, purchasing the dress is such a momentous decision that you run a risk of falling into that wallet-skinning class known as the Two-Dress Bride. These are some tips for picking the ideal dress and avoiding that awful fate.

1. Bring the entourage, but do not buy. It’s fun and helpful to bring your mum, mates or sisters on the dress-shopping expedition. It gives you a buffer against an overbearing sales staff, and it’s fun to see if your impressions of perfection are shared by your mates, not to say how they will love being an element of such an important decision. But irrespective of how ardent everybody gets over a certain dress, don’t buy in the heat of the moment. Give yourself time to rethink and buy with a cool head later, alone. The overwhelming majority of dresses are non-returnable, so when you’ve bought it, you have purchased it.

2. Don’t buy too early unless you may. Bridal robes can take four to 10 coming months from the manufacturer, but there isn’t any reason to buy over a year previously, unless your chosen style is going to be abandoned. Give yourself some time to sit on your call. After you pick a robe, you will see one hundred others nearly like it. You’ll become a walking encyclopedia on that style of robe. All the better if you still have room to choose.

3. If you’ve bought “The One,” stop shopping. Any more window-shopping at about that point will only lead you down the road toward the dull land of Two-Dress Brides. What you need to do instead is remember that blissful feeling of having attempted on The One. Go get The One out of the closet, put it on and stand in front of the mirror. You may remember exactly why it’s The One.

4. If you have acquired “The One” and can’t stop shopping, get a 2nd view. Show your first and 2nd selections to other brides. Be truthful — tell them you’ve already remortgaged your apartment for the first dress, but you believe this second dress could be It. They’ll be honest, too — the first one was better. You’ll feel reassured.

5. Don’t tell yourself “I’ll sell the old dress and choose a new one.” This old saw of the Two-Dress Bride just will not work. You can never get more than a fraction of what you paid for your first dress if you purchased it new.

6. Don’t be afraid to target high — regardless of what your budget. Some brides knew from the start they wanted a designer label, but life just didn’t cooperate by making them heiresses. Yet all is not lost if you are prepared to buy courageously. At any given moment, a better-heeled bride is selling her once-used St. Pucchi or Ulla-Maija on eBay. She paid thousands on thousands, but you, smart shopper, will pay half that or less. To take this road, you must shop earlier than other brides so you will have a choice of gowns.

7. Shop online, but never send a check. Bridal robe companies occasionally have a technique of vanishing overnite. Irrespective of what the owner tells you, never make a purchase as big a marriage robe without the chargeback protection of a credit card. If they are saying they can’t take plastic, move on.

8. Don’t hold out forever for The One. Some brides never find The One. What they do find is a few dresses they look handsome in. If you’re this bride, try starting your planning from the theme rather than the dress. You will potentially finally get sick to death of dress shopping. When that occurs, “good enough” actually will be ok. Focus on other aspects of the marriage that mean a lot to you, like the venue, the food, or the inevitable adoration of your soon-to-be husband.

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